The word "weird" often has a negative connotation that has been tightly wrapped around it, leaving little room for the uniqueness of those labelled with it. It’s strange how society teaches us to shun, judge, and criticize people who are deemed "weird." Words matter, and the title is intentionally used to align with unpleasant meanings, stripping these individuals of their uniqueness. As a result, society fractures them both internally and physically.

Only when these individuals prove that their "weirdness" serves a purpose do we view them differently. Society degrades them until their unconventional ways become valuable, and then we start to tolerate them. They are humiliated until their dedication remains unshaken, and only then do we acknowledge their worth. We put them through pain, only to later use the masterpieces born from that suffering. We shut them down by any means necessary until we realize their voices hold value. Their dreams get crushed, but when we see how their ideas help society progress, we recognize their importance.

Throughout history, even in the 21st century, those labelled as "weird" ( such as Nelson Mandela, Toni Morrison, Malcolm X, Maya Angelou, and so many more) are often the ones we admire and respect. We continuously mention them, use their ideas, and reflect on their contributions, teaching ourselves and future generations how phenomenal they were. To be labelled "weird" is to walk with a double-edged sword. You are fully aware that you'll be ridiculed more than others, even though your visions are nothing out of the ordinary. You’ll face hardships, feel isolated, and question yourself even when you're confident in your ideas. Your head may be held high in some spaces, while in others, you may feel compelled to look down. But you must keep going, carrying that label with pride, even if doubt creeps in. This journey matters.

My path: “I took a year off to figure things out, but even that wasn’t enough to determine what I wanted to do long-term. At 19, feeling pressured by time, I chose the quickest path out of my retail job—a 3-month dental office assistant program. I dismissed the idea of a four-year degree because I felt like I was running out of time. While this is the norm and starting point for many, it felt too long for me. Do I have any regrets? No, but I wish I had done it differently.” - a friend I spoke to on what makes her weird

Her journey highlights the importance of following your path, no matter how it may appear to society. Sometimes, you might feel like your path is messier and dirtier, but choosing to walk down that road will become your superpower.

Choosing me: My cousin Mariam decided to move to Ottawa for university, meaning she would live independently with no supervision. While this may seem normal to the outside world, it’s often frowned upon by African parents (though not always). The expectation was for her to stay in Edmonton, pursue her studies, and live at home. By choosing a path that might seem "weird" to others, she is symbolizing resistance—resisting conformity and boldly choosing her way.

Both of these cases were by no means easy for them to navigate. At times, they questioned and wrestled with their choices, but the most important message is to embrace and align with your "weirdness." It will be difficult, but one day, you'll be glad you did—and the people around you might celebrate it too.